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Welcome and thank you, Officer Culianos! Stay safe!

Welcome and thank you, Officer Culianos! Stay safe!Join us in welcoming Officer Anthony Culianos to Nanuet! Officer Culianos is the new School Resource Officer (SRO) at A. MacArthur Barr Middle School. He has been with the Clarkstown Police Department since 2014 and is now part of the #NUFSD family! #newtonanuet ... See MoreSee Less

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Thanks prayers stay safe and well in Jesus name

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Congratulations Lord PLZ keep him safe in this cruel world๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿซก๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿซก๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

Welcome,be safe

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Thank you from a Breast Cancer survivor...God survivor...God Bless you all......

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Hello and thank you, K-9 Vita! Stay safe!

Hello and thank you, K-9 Vita! Stay safe!We are excited to introduce our newest partner in crime-fighting: Meet K-9 "Vita" from the Czech Republic, who specializes in drug detection. Let's give her a warm welcome! #toledopolice ... See MoreSee Less

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๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

Hi there Gorgeous ! Stay Safe and watch over Your Partner / Handler.๐Ÿถ๐Ÿ–ค๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ–ค๐Ÿ’™

๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ‘ฎ‍โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ‘ฎ‍โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿบ๐Ÿบ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ‘ฎ‍โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ‘ฎ‍โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿบ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ‘ฎ‍โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

This is so precious!!!!
Stay safe, K9 Jocko! and K9 Officer Prichard!

This is so precious!!!!
Stay safe, K9 Jocko! and K9 Officer Prichard!๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ‘ฎโ€โ™‚๏ธ Exciting Adventures with K9 Jocko! ๐Ÿ“๐Ÿ’ช

Check out this pawsome pic of K9 Officer Prichard with our incredible K9 Jocko! ๐Ÿถโšก๏ธ This dynamic duo just proved that Jocko is more than just an amazing apprehension and narcotics detection K9, he's also an emotional support pup for his handler! ๐Ÿฅฐ

In this photo, you can see K9 Officer Prichard holding Jocko's paw while typing up a police report. Jocko knows that writing reports can be tough, so he's right there by his handler's side, providing that much-needed support. Talk about teamwork! ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ™Œ

We're incredibly grateful to have such a talented and caring K9 like Jocko on our force. He's always ready to lend a helping paw and make a positive impact in our community. Together, K9 Jocko and Officer Prichard continue to keep our streets safe and bring smiles to our faces. Good boy, Jocko! ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ’™

#k9handler #k9jocko #teamworkmakesthedreamwork #emotionalsupportpup #plainfieldpd #havingfun
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๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿซก๐Ÿซก๐Ÿซก๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿซก๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

Beautiful Thank You

Awwww

What a beautiful picture of a very special moment! Congratulations and thank you both!! Stay safe!

What a beautiful picture of a very special moment! Congratulations and thank you both!! Stay safe!From the New Port Richey Police Department. Like father, like daughter! Officer Negersmith is following the footsteps of her dad, who has spent his entire career in law enforcement. An affinity for policing seems to run in the family. ... See MoreSee Less

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Thanks prayers stay safe and well in Jesus name

Salute๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿซก๐Ÿซก๐Ÿซก๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

Awesome stat safe ๐Ÿ’™

๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‡ฑ๐Ÿ‡ท

Be safe and thank you ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

Be safe and thank you ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

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Thank you, #Hero!

Thank you, #Hero!Night side Officer Roman was happy to reunite an important family member with their family tonight ... See MoreSee Less

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Awesome๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ˜Š

Good Bless you

Congratulations!

Congratulations!Congratulations to the South Suburban Association Chiefs of Police 2023-2024 Executive Board Members! #NOBLEProud ... See MoreSee Less

2 days ago
Congratulations! Thank you! Stay safe!

Congratulations! Thank you! Stay safe!Last year these three chose to fill out an application and toss their name into our candidate pool. Jump forward to today, they have completed their Field Training Program and start solo patrol, serving our awesome community. Congratulations to Officer Talg, Officer Frick and Officer Shoemaker. Thank you for choosing #Wausau! ... See MoreSee Less

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Congratulations ๐ŸŽŠ

Welcome and thank you, K9 Batman and Officer Dillard! Stay safe!

Welcome and thank you, K9 Batman and Officer Dillard! Stay safe!Meet K9 Batman! K9 Batman is a German Shepard mix and is approximately 2 years old. His handler is Officer Dillard and he is one of our new Greene County Jail K9s.

K9 Batman is also featured on our newest Greene County Jail K9 Swag! This apparel can be purchased from The CrackerJack Shack using the link below!

www.crackerjackshack.com/gcsok9

This is a pre-sale. Orders will be produced and shipped after the selling period ends. A portion of every sale goes to the Greene County Sheriffโ€™s Office K9 Unit.
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Salute๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿซก๐Ÿซก๐Ÿซก๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿซก๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

โค๏ธ

Ty

Looking Good. Now, Go get the Bad Guys and find all those Drugs.

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Welcome, K-9 Havik Officer Stockdale! Thank you! Stay safe!Image attachment

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Welcome! Congratulations on your new job! Stay safe!

Salute๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿซก๐Ÿซก๐Ÿซก๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

Awesome duo ๐Ÿ’™

Awesome

Beautiful ๐Ÿ˜

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Rest in Peace, K-9 Rico. Thank you for your service, #Hero 
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Rest in Peace, K-9 Rico. Thank you for your service, #Hero
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2 days ago

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So very sorry for ur loss๐Ÿ’”may he rest in eternal peace over the rainbow bridge๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”

๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ‡ฑ๐Ÿ‡ท

Thank you for your service. Rest in peace.

RIP Rico

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2 days ago
Congratulations! Thank you! Stay safe!

Congratulations! Thank you! Stay safe!The Lovington Police Department would like to extend a warm welcome and introduce Officer Berenice Vega to our community.

Officer Vega was born in Jerecuaro Guanajuato, Mexico and came to the United States when she was 9 years old. Officer Vega graduated from Lovington High School in 2017 and was granted citizenship in 2018. Officer Vega will begin our Field Training Program and attend the Southeastern New Mexico Law Enforcement Academy at a later date.

We are delighted to have Officer Vega join our ranks at the Lovington Police Department!
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5 days ago

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Thank you Sir for your service to your community..... Enjoy your retirement... God Bless you and your family.....

Congratulations

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Salute๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿซก๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿซก๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿซก๐Ÿซก๐Ÿซก

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Thank you, SRO, Private Chestnut! Stay safe!

Thank you, SRO, Private Chestnut! Stay safe!Congratulations to our newly promoted School Resource Officer, Private Chestnut. Thank you for keeping us safe and mentoring our students. We appreciate you!
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๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‡ฑ๐Ÿ‡ท

Salute and Honor

Congratulations

Thanks prayers stay safe and well in Jesus name

Congratulations ๐ŸŽŠ

Congratulations!!!๐Ÿ‘ฎ๐Ÿฟ‍โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ‘

Congratulations lord keep her n r kids safe in this cruel world๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿซก๐Ÿซก๐Ÿซก๐Ÿซก๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

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Way to go, K9 Freddie!! Thank you!

Way to go, K9 Freddie!! Thank you!๐ŸŽต"Another One Bites the Dust," ๐ŸŽถby Freddie Mercury. Dog of the month, Madison, WI Police K9 Freddie is still in his rookie year. Of course the old veterans can be counted on...but with a new pup (and a new handler!), there is always a bit of doubt until they prove themselves in the field.
On K9 Freddie's first search warrant assignment - his SECOND call ever in his young career - he was asked to bring his nose to search a house & garage.
He immediately indicated on an old can of paint in a very messy garage. Officers were skeptical; the weight of the can didn't seem to match his response. But, "Trust Your Dog" is a maxim to live by. When they opened the can, they found a kilo of cocaine, wrapped tightly in plastic bags!
Hiding drugs in old paint cans is intended to mask the smell of the drug. Ha! Rookie Freddie was not fooled for a second. Home run first time at bat. Welcome to the team Freddie!

Madison Police Department Keeping K-9s in Kevlar #k9freddie #freddiemercury #whatanose #rookieyear #anotheronebitesthedust #berbeewalsh #trainhardworkhard #fieldtested #passedthetest #teammember
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6 days ago

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Beautiful dog

job well done Freddie....stay safe and long prormising life for you and your partner

Great job,K-9 Freddie! โค๏ธโค๏ธ

Besutiful salute๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿซก๐Ÿซก๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

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Patience and Tolerance

My dad used to joke that he could never be a doctor because he had no patients.ย  I deliberately misspelled patience to convey the word play because it is really difficult to tell a joke one dimensionally.

Okay, moving on before you lose patience with me.

Patience is tricky for me.ย  At best, I am a conditionally patient kind of guy and those conditions are often only known to me.ย  By this, I mean that I believe that patience isnโ€™t simply practiced, it is also earned.ย  I will do my best to explain using real life examples, but I am not going to promise that you wonโ€™t lose patience with me before I do.ย  Here goes.

I have patience for student drivers and for kids who have recently obtained their license.ย  I have no patience at all for people who hold up traffic, driving 20 miles under the speed limit in the fast lane while texting.

I have patience for employees who show up every day ready to learn something new and to challenge themselves.ย  I have no patience at all for an employee who asks not what he can do for the company, but what the company can do for him.

I have patience for anyone who exerts an earnest effort, but falls short of his or her goal.ย  I have no patience at all for those who set no goals and demonstrate no ambition, but expect the world anyway.

I have patience when a contractor calls to tell me that he will be late or postponed.ย  I have no patience at all for the contractor who delays my project with no advanced notice or any explanation.

I have patience for great causes that may take some time to find their way and gain traction even if it means that I spend more time working on behalf of them.ย  I have no patience at all for poorly thought out, unorganized efforts that go nowhere, but waste time indiscriminately.

Basically, I find that I have all kinds of time for people and causes that are genuine and not so much for those that arenโ€™t.

I look at it like this.ย  My time has always been precious to me and I am judicious with it accordingly.ย  For the most part, I have become adept at assessing a person or a cause and then determining with accuracy whether I should be patient and invest some of my time and energy.ย  I think that skill has helped me to derive more enjoyment from my time than I otherwise would have if I simply offered my patience unconditionally.ย  I also think that practicing this skill has made me a better decision maker.

In the spirit of full disclosure, however, I can tell you that I am not always patient with myself and I absolutely react too impatiently to certain situations.

I am a horrible handyman, but I still approach every household project as though it will only take a few minutes and when that turns out not to be true, I immediately get frustrated.ย  Along those same lines, despite having a very limited toolbox, I still somehow expect to always have just the right tool for the job only for my unfounded optimism to turn to instantaneous ire.

I love animals and I full well know that pets are a lot of work yet when our dog is in our backyard for two minutes and somehow comes back to the door filthy, it often is a true test of my patience.

So, I guess what I am saying is that even though the concept of patience is obviously something I have given a lot of thought to and have gone as far as to categorize it, even I canโ€™t fully explain how I apply it.ย  I think this is because somewhere along the way my patience or lack thereof intertwines with my tolerance.ย  This then leads to the question of whether a person can be patient, but intolerant or impatient and tolerant at the same time.ย  I think the answer is yes, which really starts to create some confusion!

Clearly, patience can and often does go hand in hand with tolerance, however, the opposite is far more interesting to think about.ย  Using my previous example, I am apparently patient with our dog, but intolerant of the mess she creates.ย  Similarly, I consider myself to not only be tolerant of, but interested in the many varied opinions of the people I interact with on a daily basis, but if one of those persons takes too long to state that opinion I may grow impatient with him.

In these instances, I need to be careful not to convey the wrong message.ย  I want our dog to know I love her and that she is not in trouble just because she goes out and does what dogs do.ย  I also need my long-winded acquaintance to know that his opinion is just fine with me even though he may not be as concise as I would like him to be when sharing it.

If I think of myself as patient and tolerant, but my pets and friends donโ€™t receive that message, then the virtue of my patience and tolerance is completely lost because when it comes to matters such as these, the only reality is the perception of those that you care about.ย  The challenge isnโ€™t to make myself more patient or tolerant.ย  The challenge is to make sure that I convey whatever level of patience and tolerance I feel in a clear and appropriate way even when I am the only party involved.

I am going to continue to work on my own patience and tolerance and hopefully improve upon it, especially the way in which I convey it to others.ย  I value self-awareness in others and I need to make sure that I practice it myself.ย  In my opinion, anyone who comports himself in a manner that indicates he knows who he is, how he portrays himself, and is respectful of others along the way is very likely worth my patience and tolerance.

 

Scott Arney
Chief Executive Officer
Chicago Patrolmenโ€™s Federal Credit Union

 

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